Do you wish to achieve perfection, both in your relationship with yourself as well as with others? I know that you know but you do not know that you really do not know - get to know your 'self While reading this book each one of you will say "I know". No one knows himself better than the individual himself but how truthful are you about yourself? The biggest liar is the one who lies to himself. Do you really think you are the individual you know? Think and then think about what you have thought. Is it what you really thought? Ask your conscience because in this world there is nothing more honest and sincere than one's conscience. The two great movers of the human mind are the desire of good and the fear of evil. One should have a desire to be good and do well. Desire is the key to motivation. It is the key to develop a healthy personality and a positive attitude towards oneself and others. Let us begin by creating a desire to be good, to feel good about ourselves and others and a desire to analyse ourselves honestly. The gradual development of this attitude will surely help you take a big leap towards personality development.

*USHAURI KUHUSU MAMBO MBALIMBALI KATIKA MAISHA* *1. Huwezi kubadili namna watu walivyokutendea mpaka ubadili namna unavyowatendea.​* Matayo 7:12; "Basi yote myatakayo mtendewe na watu, nanyi watendeeni vivyo hivyo; maana hiyo ndiyo Torati na Manabii." *​2. Huwezi kubadili tabia mpaka ubadili marafiki.​* 1Wakorintho 15:33 "Msidanganyike; Mazungumzo mabaya huharibu tabia njema." *​3. Huwezi kubadili ulichovuna mpaka ubadili ulichokipanda.​* Wagalatia 6:7; "Msidanganyike, Mungu hadhihakiwi; kwa kuwa chochote apandacho mtu, ndicho atakachovuna." *​4. Huwezi kubadili mwelekeo wa maisha yako mpaka ubadili dereva.​* Kutoka 23:1-3; "Msivumishe habari za uongo; usishirikiane na mwovu kwa kuwa shahidi wa uongo. Usiwafuate walio wengi katika kutenda uovu; wala usitie ushahidi wako katika neno lolote kwa kugeukia kando na kuandamana na mkutano ili kupotosha hukumu; wala usimpendelee mtu mnyonge katika neno lake". Maisha yako yaweza ongozwa na mkumbo wa watu au ​MSIMAMO​ wako ​BINAFSI​ kwa ​UNACHOKIAMINI.​ *​5. Huwezi kubadili hali yako ya kifedha mpaka ubadili tabia yako ya kifedha.​* Mithali 21:17; Mtu apendaye anasa atakuwa maskini; yeyote apendaye mvinyo, kula na manukato hatakuwa tajiri." ​Mtindo wa maisha ya ufukara ndiyo busara kwa wengi.​ *​6. Huwezi kunibadili mpaka ujibadili mwenyewe.​* Matayo 7:3-5. "Basi, mbona wakitazama kibanzi kilicho ndani ya jicho la ndugu yako, na boriti iliyo ndani ya jicho lako mwenyewe huioni? Au utamwambiaje nduguyo, Niache nikitoe kibanzi katika jicho lako; na kumbe! Mna boriti ndani ya jicho lako mwenyewe? Mnafiki wewe, itoe kwanza ile boriti katika jicho lako mwenyewe; ndipo utakapoona vema kukitoa kile kibanzi katika jicho la ndugu