Love is never as easy as people think it is or makes it look . It's not about how somebody looks its about what's on the inside . Sometimes it takes years and years to build up a relationship with somebody and honestly it's not going to be easy . There will be break ups , jealousy , hate from other people , and other obstacles . This is where true love comes in because if you truly love someone then nothing can change the way you feel about them not friends , arguments , other boys or girls . So if you can proudly say that you have successfully crossed all of those boundaries then congratulations because you're an example of true strong love .