Trilogy to " Unforgivable Lies. " Must follow to read all of the chapters. " Love withstands the test of time." The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master.