'jealously will get you no-where'- some wise person once said, most likely a jealous person said this just to sound intelligent but anyway. I'm jealous of my bestfriend, she's found her mate, i haven't. My friend with benefits just found his mate and I havent. My baby sister will probably find her mate before me! Yes my life consists off constant worry for not having a mate. and when he finally decides to show up, he's not exactly the person i've been imagining.