self love is something we take for granted something that is stressed from when we are young something that we thought we would never lose so when we lose it we aren't prepared for it when that happens, we become self abusive we develop, what you might call an addiction to pain

The day Victor decides to casually infom his father that he's gay is the day his whole world comes chrashing down around him. Suddenly everything has changed; he's gone from the top to the bottom all because of two simple words, and now he has to figure out how to deal with the anger issues that are slowlly making him spiral out of control, the unertainty of who's going to stand beside him now that he's no longer on the bright side, and the guilt of thinking that maybe his father's right, and there is something wrong with him. But perhaps, as bad as it all seems, a little fall is all Victor needed to find out that there are a lot of unexpected hands willing to help him get back up.

Confidence - a feeling of self assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's or qualities It's easier defined then felt. That's how Nebbie Blair feels about her self unconfident. For her it's hard to just love herself due to what other people tell her. Going into high school she met the most popular guy in the school, Lance. It's hard for her to imagine him liking a girl like her but it gives her the confidence she always wanted. But then she realizes how fake their love was and think that love is fake and doesn't believe in it. Until Adonis came along to change how she feels. But in order to love someone you have to love yourself first.