chydynma30
Marriage has thought me a lot of lessons. So while in it, be alert ,smart and not naive. Regardless the situation you find your self learn to speak up, make friends and if you are in a foreign country know the rules, culture and if ever you find your self in an unsafe, harmful situation. Please seek help.
Nativity is not an excuse . Be wise!
I grew up in Africa from a middle income widowed Mum. I was a happy and loved child, who always got love from everyone around me, until I fell into the hands of a man who lived in Europe that I barely even knew . I was formally introduced to this man by a close relative, when I met him we fell in love at a glance and within 2 weeks he proposed to me.
I got a fairy tale wedding but after we got married, 1 year later i realized he was a devil's incarnate. I was married to a complete stranger, who was both physically, verbally and emotionally abusive to me and my kids. The abuse was extreme that he even beat me in a cold night in a parking lot when i was 8 months pregnant.
Eventually he stealthily brings me and the children that lived with him in Europe back to Africa without my consent and forcefully making me forfeit my job. I was accused by family members of not having a male child.
One night he threw me and 2 toddlers into the streets in Nigeria, claiming he was no longer interested in the marriage and would not provide any form of financial support for me or our children, unless I agreed to leave them in the care of his parents, apparently i refuse to let that happen so I left with my 2 daughters.
As a Youth Corper who just started her service year, how would i survive with my children, no home no food or shelter.
The world is so cruel, even the ones you love have a way of exhibiting that insane cruelty.
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My sad story begins here....