After the scene where Elio cries in front of the fireplace

in which elio's heart remains broken, whilst oliver has selfish intentions to piece back together the untrue love began: 11/12/18 finished: 15/7/19 lowercase intended

Oliver returns to Crema to spend Hanukkah with Elio's family. Elio is close to breaking down. He loves Oliver. Oliver is getting married. Elio wants him to feel the pain he is in. Elio wants Oliver to choose him. Elio wants Oliver to make love to him for one last time.