Ayalisandre is the daughter of the Elf King, the ruler of the first realm and it is said that she is the most beautiful woman in all of the eight realms. Syra is a knight of the second realm and niece to the Human King, it is said that her beauty rivals that of the elvish princess. These two are completely different...
She is different. In a good way. The kind of different that attracts people like me. She isn't exactly an outcast, because she deliberately decided to have no friends and be alone. Trust me, she could have anyone she wants as a friend or significant other, she just doesn't want too. She is different.