Avoidantattachment Stories

Pretender Series || Salazar Cousins #5 Avoidant. She had always been like this. A girl that plays around and never been serious with her relationships. But when she fell in love, she masked that feeling instead of confessing. Gusto nila ang isa't isa pero, lagi na lang siyang umiiwas, iniiba usapan. Kasi pakiramdam niya, hindi sila bagay sa isa't isa. Why would someone so kind and gentle want a rebellious, always angry, always running person like her? She even called his belief stupid yet, he never got mad at her. It made her uncomfortable. How could someone stay despite her flaws and mistakes? How could someone find heaven beneath the flame?

｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ。 fracturing 10 - hugh biggs 　ﾟ･｡･ Faith Feely and Hugh Biggs have grown up side by side. They've been there for every scraped knee, every bad decision, every moment that felt too big to carry alone. No matter what happened, they always found their way back to each other. For Hugh, Faith has always been a certainty in a world full of questions. But growing up changes people, and not always for the better. Whilst Hugh is only beginning to understand himself and the life he wants, Faith feels years ahead of everyone around her. Life has asked too much of her, too early. She learned how to survive when she should have been learning how to be young, and somewhere along the way she became someone who hides behind perfect smiles and cutting words. When the weight she's carrying finally becomes too much, Faith starts pushing people away; especially Hugh. He tells himself to give her space, to let her go through whatever she's facing on her own. But watching Faith disappear behind walls she refuses to explain is harder than he ever imagined. The further she drifts, the more determined he becomes to reach her, even if he doesn't know how. As the distance between them grows, Hugh becomes determined to help the girl he's always cared about. But fixing someone isn't the same as loving them, and the harder he tries to hold Faith together, the greater the risk that he'll be the one who finally fractures her beyond repair.

This is a new Ranchuu story, where Chuuya has an avoidant attachment style and struggles with an eating disorder, while Ranpo has an anxious attachment style. Ranpo and Chuuya love each other deeply. Of that there is no doubt. The problem was never a lack of feelings; it was all they carried with them. The wounds of the past clung to them like shadows, turning something as simple as love into a daily battle. Because while Ranpo felt butterflies in his stomach whenever Chuuya smiled at him or got too close, Chuuya felt flies. An uncomfortable buzzing under his skin that told him to back off before he got hurt. It wasn't that he didn't love Ranpo. He loved him, more than he would ever admit, even to himself. But he had grown up in a place where love was seen as a weakness, where trusting someone meant handing them a weapon that could be used against you. He learned that depending on others was dangerous and that vulnerability was an invitation to pain. So every time Ranpo tried to get closer, Chuuya pushed away. Every time Ranpo sought comfort, security, or simply wanted to hear the words "I love you," Chuuya built walls so high that even he couldn't see beyond them. And that hurt Ranpo. Because Ranpo needed closeness. He needed to know he was loved, that he wouldn't be abandoned, that Chuuya wouldn't suddenly disappear without explanation. However, the more Ranpo sought that security, the more trapped Chuuya felt. It became a vicious cycle neither of them knew how to break. Perhaps they would never be a normal couple.

Meera had a life that looked right. A stable job, a peaceful family and a future that to made sense, at least to everyone else. But somewhere in between expectations and reality, something didn't feel right. She met new people, reunited with old memories --some peaceful others traumatic. Some people felt like home, some like lessons and some left without any clear ending. Meera hated goodbyes so she never said that... just to ghost people around her. Amidst her ego, avoidant issues, cynicism ----- will she be able to figure out what she wants from life?

meet someone who's avoidant when it comes to love and when her life's about to fall down. someone you can't easily reach, someone who didn't let anyone enter her life because she has that fear of being left alone. she build her walls too high that no one can easily get in and building it to high 'cause her not to easily get out. she'll never choose a guy over her dreams. and meet someone who's willing to climb her walls, who's willing to understand her avoidant attachment. but the time he gets tired, he let go of her. because she's hard to reach, she's to avoidant for someone like him. he let go of her because he thought she was truly pushing him away. what he didn't know was that she was pushing him away so he would pull her closer instead of giving up on her-not so that he would let her go.

The recesses of my heart put on display in the form of poetry. An ongoing dialogue...

Life is hard. Every individual has their own problem that they carried everyday but still smiles. Pero sa punto ng buhay ko, parang wala akong karapatang ngumiti dahil marami pang naghihintay sa akin. Everyone doesn't know that-but heaven knows it.

poem about a girl with avoidant attachment and is with a boy who has anxious attachment.

a heart that runs, a boy who stays. when her past begins to unravel, he vows to love her differently.

"Fine, I'll admit it." Suara Kiara bergetar, nyaris tak terdengar di antara jeda napasnya yang berat. Hening menggantung di antara mereka seperti kabut tebal yang enggan menghilang. Tatapannya menusuk, penuh luka, namun juga kejujuran yang tak bisa lagi ia sembunyikan. "Aku akui semuanya," lanjutnya, kali ini lebih lirih, seolah kata-kata itu sendiri menyakitinya. "hanya demi kamu..." Kiara merasakan dadanya sesak, nafasnya tidak beraturan. "aku hancurkan benteng yang kubangun seumur hidupku, egoku, harga diriku... semua kubiarkan runtuh hanya demi kamu..." Air matanya jatuh, satu per satu, tanpa bisa ia cegah. Bukan karena lemah, tapi karena akhirnya beban yang selama ini membelenggu hatinya terlepas. Perasaan yang ia simpan terlalu lama di balik senyum pura-pura dan sikap dingin, kini menyeruak begitu saja, telanjang dan rapuh. "Kalau semua kekacauan ini... segala luka, kebingungan, dan perasaan yang nggak bisa kupahami ini-kalau itu yang kamu sebut cinta..." Ia menatap orang di hadapannya, dan untuk pertama kalinya, ia tak menyembunyikan apapun. "...then,I love you."

Every Sunday, Erin packs a black backpack and crosses the city for a man who makes the world feel quiet when they're alone. With Iso, intimacy is precise and consuming ----- a private world where nothing else intrudes. But that world never extends beyond the hours they share, and Erin begins to realize how much of herself she has been carrying toward something that never quite arrives. No Case on Mondays is a restrained, emotionally precise story about love, imbalance, and a lingering question: what are you willing to accept in order to stay?

Sky has been in love with Drew for as long as she can remember. Only problem is he's her older brother's best friend and sees her as a little kid. He moved a way 2 years ago and Sky thinks she is over him until he decides to spend the summer with them and all the feelings she had comes rushing back

Adelaide needed a clean break. She cut Dylan off for a reason, whether she wanted to or not. She could feel herself growing too attached, and he seemed so confident about everything. Much to her dismay, Dylan knows her better than she knows herself.

A vampire named Szandor Aranyos only wished for solitude. Instead, he finds himself with a crying human child. Alongside him: an elderly druid with psychedelic herbs, a lynx with its own motives, and a child determined to explore every abyss of parental attachment issues. This is a story about reluctant care, dysfunctional family dynamics, existential weariness, and the sting of emotional neglect.

Eden Engel is perfect. Noted as the mean girl in the Engel family, people think of her as rude. Emmett Franks. Local genius and always trying to one up her. It's just that Eden and him used to be very close. Emmet sees Eden's cracks in the perfect front she puts forth. But can they both help each other?

ako yung na una pero siya ang wakas ako ang kasama pero isip mo siya pinaasa lang ako habang ipinahahabol niya sarili niya sa dating one sided crush ngayon having long term happy crush relationship ma niya

To live in a religious family is to be told what's right- and yet, to feel the weight of every wrong they choose to ignore. Alexa Adrienne Vale grew up surrounded by faith but starved of warmth. She learned early that silence was safer than honesty, that love could be both a blessing and a wound. So she built walls. She pushed people away- not because she didn't want to be loved, but because she was terrified of being hurt again. And yet, in the quiet corners of her heart, she longed for someone to stay. Then came Jaden Caelum Rivera. Rebellious, charming, and everything her world warned her about. He wasn't perfect-but he saw her in ways no one ever did. He made her question everything she believed about love, and about herself. Somewhere between pain and peace, between faith and doubt, between two hearts afraid to meet halfway- there exists a kind of love worth fighting for. Because maybe the real story isn't about finding perfection... but finding someone who loves you through your scars.

Joan wants to try again. JFK wants to start over. They both want to trust each other. But what happened in the past can't be undone. Will they be forced to change for the other to make a relationship work? Or will they find that who they really are under the surface is enough? Meanwhile, Abe recruits Catherine the Great and Caesar to do what needs to be done...

Mía, a distracted yet brilliant 21 year old psychology student, chose avoidant attachment as the central focus of her thesis. Upon finishing it, the work was just that: a solid, theoretically grounded approach with clear potential-but lacking the human lived element needed to truly resonate, according to her thesis advisor. That is when her best friend Josh, a psychologist and therapist at an elite private school, tells her about a particular case: a charming yet emotionally distant boy who has left marks on more than one of the female students Josh has treated. Girls who felt chosen, then abandoned, without ever understanding what they had done wrong. Trying to help her grasp what her thesis was missing, Josh gives Mía a simple piece of advice: put yourself in their shoes. However, he didn't know that she would take those words literally, far beyond anything he intended.

This book is about wanting love without knowing how to ask for it. About reaching for others while fearing you are too much. About being treated gently only when you are quiet, and misunderstood the moment you start to hurt. This is a collection of pieces about avoidant hearts, unmet understanding, and the kind of love that arrives at the right time - just not when you need it most. Some of us don't want attention. We want to be understood.