Истории Avoidantattachment

Two sides of a string ready to meet. Kyaire and Azahni are two 10th graders. Both of them have been through so much a child shouldn't have to go through. Azahni, she had a decent set up. The clothes, shoes, good education, almost everything a kid could ask for. The things that happened to her though. Those were things that broke her slowly and slowly until she wasn't her anymore. Kyaire, he didn't have a great beginning. His parents were both alcoholics. His mother died, and his dad was barely ever around, and we he was it wasn't good for Kyaire. He had to learn to grow up very early. Azahni and Kyaire have crossed paths many times. When they finally stop and notice each other they can build each other back up. Let them be the child they never got to be. They will be each other's antidote.

meet someone who's avoidant when it comes to love and when her life's about to fall down. someone you can't easily reach, someone who didn't let anyone enter her life because she has that fear of being left alone. she build her walls too high that no one can easily get in and building it to high 'cause her not to easily get out. she'll never choose a guy over her dreams. and meet someone who's willing to climb her walls, who's willing to understand her avoidant attachment. but the time he gets tired, he let go of her. because she's hard to reach, she's to avoidant for someone like him. he let go of her because he thought she was truly pushing him away. what he didn't know was that she was pushing him away so he would pull her closer instead of giving up on her-not so that he would let her go.

𝙸𝚗 𝚠𝚑𝚒𝚌𝚑... 𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚛𝚍 𝚖𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚒𝚜 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚗 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎: 𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝚏𝚒𝚛𝚜𝚝 𝚖𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚖𝚎𝚊𝚗 𝚗𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚢𝚘𝚞. 𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚎𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚍, 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗'𝚝 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚢. 𝙰𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚕𝚢, 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚛𝚍. 𝚆𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚋𝚎𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚒𝚖𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚝 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚏𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚜 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚝𝚠𝚒𝚗𝚎. 𝙾𝚛 𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛... 𝙸𝚗 𝚠𝚑𝚒𝚌𝚑... 𝙸𝚛𝚒𝚜 𝚂𝚎𝚋𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚊𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚙𝚎𝚜 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚝𝚘 𝚋𝚎 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚜 𝚠𝚊𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚛𝚍 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚖𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐.

Centhrine Del Rial and Deloriel Lacaran had something real but never something official. For five months, they stayed in a situationship. No label. No promises. No clarity. Just feelings they were both too scared to acknowledge. He thought she was cold but she was just carrying problems she never told him about. In the end, it only took one message and one smiling emoji to end everything. Because the hardest part of a situationship is this, when it breaks, you have no right to ask why. Sometimes, love fails not because it isn't real... but because it came at the wrong time.

The recesses of my heart put on display in the form of poetry. An ongoing dialogue...

Joan wants to try again. JFK wants to start over. They both want to trust each other. But what happened in the past can't be undone. Will they be forced to change for the other to make a relationship work? Or will they find that who they really are under the surface is enough? Meanwhile, Abe recruits Catherine the Great and Caesar to do what needs to be done...

Adelaide needed a clean break. She cut Dylan off for a reason, whether she wanted to or not. She could feel herself growing too attached, and he seemed so confident about everything. Much to her dismay, Dylan knows her better than she knows herself.

Mía, a distracted yet brilliant 21 year old psychology student, chose avoidant attachment as the central focus of her thesis. Upon finishing it, the work was just that: a solid, theoretically grounded approach with clear potential-but lacking the human lived element needed to truly resonate, according to her thesis advisor. That is when her best friend Josh, a psychologist and therapist at an elite private school, tells her about a particular case: a charming yet emotionally distant boy who has left marks on more than one of the female students Josh has treated. Girls who felt chosen, then abandoned, without ever understanding what they had done wrong. Trying to help her grasp what her thesis was missing, Josh gives Mía a simple piece of advice: put yourself in their shoes. However, he didn't know that she would take those words literally, far beyond anything he intended.

She noticed him when it was already too late. After the heartbreak. After the silence between them had grown too deep. They never talked. Never touched. But he was always there - in the background of her life. Now that she's finally fallen, he's busy falling for someone else. So she stays silent. Like she always has. Because some feelings... were never meant to be heard

poem about a girl with avoidant attachment and is with a boy who has anxious attachment.

a heart that runs, a boy who stays. when her past begins to unravel, he vows to love her differently.

Eden Engel is perfect. Noted as the mean girl in the Engel family, people think of her as rude. Emmett Franks. Local genius and always trying to one up her. It's just that Eden and him used to be very close. Emmet sees Eden's cracks in the perfect front she puts forth. But can they both help each other?

This book is about wanting love without knowing how to ask for it. About reaching for others while fearing you are too much. About being treated gently only when you are quiet, and misunderstood the moment you start to hurt. This is a collection of pieces about avoidant hearts, unmet understanding, and the kind of love that arrives at the right time - just not when you need it most. Some of us don't want attention. We want to be understood.

"Fine, I'll admit it." Suara Kiara bergetar, nyaris tak terdengar di antara jeda napasnya yang berat. Hening menggantung di antara mereka seperti kabut tebal yang enggan menghilang. Tatapannya menusuk, penuh luka, namun juga kejujuran yang tak bisa lagi ia sembunyikan. "Aku akui semuanya," lanjutnya, kali ini lebih lirih, seolah kata-kata itu sendiri menyakitinya. "hanya demi kamu..." Kiara merasakan dadanya sesak, nafasnya tidak beraturan. "aku hancurkan benteng yang kubangun seumur hidupku, egoku, harga diriku... semua kubiarkan runtuh hanya demi kamu..." Air matanya jatuh, satu per satu, tanpa bisa ia cegah. Bukan karena lemah, tapi karena akhirnya beban yang selama ini membelenggu hatinya terlepas. Perasaan yang ia simpan terlalu lama di balik senyum pura-pura dan sikap dingin, kini menyeruak begitu saja, telanjang dan rapuh. "Kalau semua kekacauan ini... segala luka, kebingungan, dan perasaan yang nggak bisa kupahami ini-kalau itu yang kamu sebut cinta..." Ia menatap orang di hadapannya, dan untuk pertama kalinya, ia tak menyembunyikan apapun. "...then,I love you."

Sky has been in love with Drew for as long as she can remember. Only problem is he's her older brother's best friend and sees her as a little kid. He moved a way 2 years ago and Sky thinks she is over him until he decides to spend the summer with them and all the feelings she had comes rushing back

ఌ 𝘨𝘰𝘭𝘥s fake and real love hurts. but nothing hurts when i'm with you. ──────── ⌗⊹₊⟡⋆𝐈𝐍 𝐖𝐇𝐈𝐂𝐇, 𝐌𝐀𝐄𝐕𝐄 𝐁𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐑 has spent her entire life on the ice, chasing a dream as the spotlight-olympic gold. raised in boston by her mom and her mom's best friend, maeve grew up alongside her kids, a tight family that felt like home. well, most of them. christopher sturniolo was different. once inseparable, now enemies, their relationship turned icy in ways neither chris nor maeve could fully understand. while maeve pushes herself to the limits in figure skating, chris dominates the hockey rink, their worlds coming together in ways they can't run from. an unspoken desire for each other that they cannot succumb to. but as pressure builds, the ice between them starts to crack. ❝ cₐₜcₕ ₘₑ ᵢf ₕₑ ₗₑₜₛ ₘₑ fₐₗₗ ❞

Life is hard. Every individual has their own problem that they carried everyday but still smiles. Pero sa punto ng buhay ko, parang wala akong karapatang ngumiti dahil marami pang naghihintay sa akin. Everyone doesn't know that-but heaven knows it.

To live in a religious family is to be told what's right- and yet, to feel the weight of every wrong they choose to ignore. Alexa Adrienne Vale grew up surrounded by faith but starved of warmth. She learned early that silence was safer than honesty, that love could be both a blessing and a wound. So she built walls. She pushed people away- not because she didn't want to be loved, but because she was terrified of being hurt again. And yet, in the quiet corners of her heart, she longed for someone to stay. Then came Jaden Caelum Rivera. Rebellious, charming, and everything her world warned her about. He wasn't perfect-but he saw her in ways no one ever did. He made her question everything she believed about love, and about herself. Somewhere between pain and peace, between faith and doubt, between two hearts afraid to meet halfway- there exists a kind of love worth fighting for. Because maybe the real story isn't about finding perfection... but finding someone who loves you through your scars.

ako yung na una pero siya ang wakas ako ang kasama pero isip mo siya pinaasa lang ako habang ipinahahabol niya sarili niya sa dating one sided crush ngayon having long term happy crush relationship ma niya

A vampire named Szandor Aranyos only wished for solitude. Instead, he finds himself with a crying human child. Alongside him: an elderly druid with psychedelic herbs, a lynx with its own motives, and a child determined to explore every abyss of parental attachment issues. This is a story about reluctant care, dysfunctional family dynamics, existential weariness, and the sting of emotional neglect.