Sofiawithhope
What makes us feel happy and peaceful in relationship with others? I suggest many of us would answer: to be cared, to feel valuable and respected. However, what defines respect? What words, actions, habits and manners? A lot of people were taught not to have certain habits, like not to doodle in noses and teeth in front of others, not to swear and badmouth, not to throw things, not to hold hands in pockets and not to look on watch when you speak, not to scratch your head in front of people, not to fart when someone can hear or smell, not to slam things and doors, raise your hand when you want to ask or answer during lessons, say" please, thank you", not to interrupt when you are talked to, give your seat to elders I transport, hold door after them, call strangers you deal with and teachers,school, college workers " sir,madam, Mister, Mrs".All of the above is really important and true. However, what do we do if we deal with people who demand respect, cause of being disrespectful, but never give respectful attitude on return?