Kaligrablife storie

I guess once in awhile,we get in a Web....Sometimes we are not who we used to think we were...we are different and unusual not because we want to,but because it just happens. But does that define us? is that who we truly are? The mistakes we make the bad stuff we say,does that really speak for the real us inside?...What about the people who think they can truly define us...? Define you...what makes you unique? ...what makes you Despicable?...So many times I have judged and have been judged (often wrongly though) but the truth is if you don't accept yourself for who you are and believe in your definition of yourself...people will! Getting "entangled" is sometimes nerve wrecking... How do you escape...?