LeizyDaisy
I've noticed a lot of people questioning their a-spec identity so I made a this story to maybe figure it out. I will be covering different identities and some signs that should've made realise I'm a-spec and other things I've heard people in the community say about their experience.
Everyone experiences their aceness or aroness differently so it's very possible you might be on the aro or ace spectrum without relating to nay of these. The only things you need to be considered a-spec is a lack or no sexual/romantic attraction afterall.
For the record I'm an aplatonic, non-Sam aro without sexual attraction or any other terrtiary attraction. I'm also loveless, non-amorous, romance repulsed/averse and sex neutral/indiffirent.