Not each individual that is living "the fantasy" or "the great life" is really carrying on with a decent life. Take for example the scandalous Colombian medication master Pablo Escobar. He clearly lived well. All things considered, Escobar is recorded to have been the wealthiest criminal ever. He had private planes, race autos and sumptuous chateaus. What's more, I'm almost certain he absolutely draw bliss and fulfillment from his life. In any case, was his life a decent life? Surely not.
As should be obvious, there's conceivably a tremendous contrast between carrying on with the great life and carrying on with a decent life. Not each individual that is carrying on with a fulfilled life is carrying on with a decent life.