when you can look at someone and tell that they are hurting, then you know that they have been hurting a lot. When you don't have to try to write about pain, heartbreak, cutting, death, that's when you know you are hurt. that is when you have been hurt for a long time. and i have to thank two people for getting me threw this @BlackendRose my best friend @xstevoox (idk what to call him) but he is my best friend as well