BDSM 101

So after living the lifestyle for about four years, while I'm still quite new, I've decided to share information on real-life BDSM, and not the watered down, shot-through-a-lens-of-cute BDSM we see on tumblr, instagram, or in most stories here on wattpad. Which, I will remind you, is not at all bad! It's totally cool to want to be cute, I get the draw, it just isn't always true to life, and I'm here trying to educate and prepare you for BDSM that isn't all pink tumblr aesthetic kitten play and ddlg because there is a whole world of bdsm that we may miss just looking at that!