Having a connection at birth with someone just shows that they're meant to be together forever, but what if they're not? Some people just like to keep precious people to themselves.
Alot can happen in a life time. fate can has its own course, and thats something you cannot control. Some say our destiny is tied to the land, other say fate is twined together like a tapestry unmovable. Some never find it but there are some that fate cannot control.