rec•on•cile
/ˈrekənˌsīl/
verb
•restore friendly relations between.
•cause to coexist in harmony; make or show to be compatible.
•settle (a disagreement).
•make someone accept (a disagreeable or unwelcome thing).
"You want him. And he wants you. But so do I. But you're choosing him. You want him instead of me even though I have been with you through everything. You're choosing him instead of me."