"He is the one Ex I'll never be able to hate...he will always have a place in my heart." I say, to my sister during one of our late night talks. My sister looks at me and smiles, "So...what are you going to do?" Honestly.... I haven't decided yet... how did this happen? Ashley-24 engaged and happy Tanner-25 (Ashleys fiancé) also happy Matt- 28 (Ashleys Ex) married Mary-28 Matts new wife First Love... its never forgotten, sometimes we find a better love and you move on But sometimes you just do not know.