Are you playing victim, super hero or both?

In life we tend to play victim or super hero and sometimes we play both depending on our circumstances. When you are facing challenges what do you do? Do you play victim and tell everybody about what terrible thing happened to you and enjoy their attention or do you play super hero and take charge of the situation and don't deal with your emotions because every body is depending on you? This is my story and I hope you get inspired by it.