THIS THING CALLED DATING, LOVE AND MARRIAGE
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Now, let's talk about this thing they call dating, love and marriage.
Today, there is so much noise about dating among singles, teenagers, etc. This is largely copied from Western cultures.
Let's define the word dating.
In these modern days, dating is about inviting, meeting, hooking up or rolling with someone of interest to you for an opportunity to start
'a relationship'. Most people call it boyfriend, girlfriend or dating relationship. You will hear a 12, 13, 14 year old boy or girl etc having a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's sick and obvious something is wrong somewhere.
Now, do you expect the one being dated to reveal his or her ugly side?
If that relationship leads to marriage, then what was hid would be uncovered. Remember this. Not every marriage that stays together.....Is together. Many of them leave together as housemates.
My question is, starting a relationship for what reason? Do they know who this person is?
Do they even know what marriage is?
Are they sure if it's the right person? Is the person Gods idea for them? Do they even know their purpose in life?
Youth today jump from girl to girl and boy to boy in search of acceptance, pride, sex or just their idea of what they call "love". They go out on dates with multiple people of the opposite sex in other to find the right person.
People are looking for sex without love, sexual love without marriage, sex just to have children without marriage, sex just to make money (Prostitution) and marriage without responsibility. In Gods point of view this is wrong.
To those of you who don't believe God exists let me explain this to you.
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