How to Care for your Stubborn Writer

As of personal experience, this may also apply to your beloved friendly artist, music listener-gatherer, or nerdy loving friend who are generally closed off and distrusting. Having such a beloved person of my own to deal with, I find that sharing tips on how to deal with their passive-agressive tendencies and habits may help in making sure they actually live despite their lack of self-awareness and/or self-preservation.
I take questions, expound on comments that give suggestions, and generally just hope to ensure the survival of those who are gifts to the world. Even if my 'gift to the world' slaughters me when they discover this.