"Why are you telling me about your birthday as if I care?" I asked regretting it an instant.One of his rules was that I never speak to him in such a manner. "There will be a party and I expect you to be there projecting your best behaviour at 8p.m sharp. I am a man of high class and it is expected that my wife dressed like she has class." I looked at him showing that what he just said didn't hurt me at all.