Women are real bitches. Let's face the truth for a minute. Who were the meanest people on the playground? Girls. Who spread rumours about you? Girls. Who passively aggressively attacked you on a daily basis to chip away at your self esteem? Other women. It's a real problem. I know that my life has consisted of girls jumping on me while I'm down and rubbing my face in the dirt. It's a problem that needs to be discussed and dealt with. It's a real issue that begins with mothers at home! ☝️ Dear mothers of girls, everywhere: stop telling your daughters that they have to be "the prettiest", "the best", "the most talented", "the smartest". Stop teaching your daughters how to find comparisons between themselves and other girls. Instead, teach your daughters the facts of life: That there will always be someone out there who's prettier, better, smarter, more talented, etc. Sometimes you will be that better one and sometimes you will be that lesser one. When you are the better, embrace the lesser and when you are the lesser, learn from the better and appreciate the better. We act like all of our daughters are princesses and we treat them that way. When they go out into the real world and discover that they are not actual princesses, well, reality bites and this turns normal people into narcissistic bitches. Treat your daughters like PEOPLE. Like amazing, unique individuals who have worth that is not defined by comparisons to others. ☝️❤
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