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pansy
/ˈpanzi'/
noun
someone very pathetic and wimpy, generally used as an insult against both sexes. often confused with fag, sissy and other rather small-minded terms for a homosexual man.
fa·cade
/fəˈsäd/
noun
an outward appearance that is maintained to conceal a less pleasant or creditable reality.
"her flawless public facade masked private despair"
(3.4.19- 9.4.19)