Arrows Through a Bastard

Does Jon keep Ygritte? Or does Ygritte keep Jon?
Something changes when Ygritte shoots Jon. Instead of him riding off, stuck like a hedgehog, like she's imagined so many times, he falls off his horse, and Ygritte has no choice but to keep him. This is the love story that should have happened but didn't because of one tiny reason: George R.R. Martin