Message for Eve

It's been a long and hard year for "Eve Oddly" but she's a tough girl, so I'm sure she can handle it.
After her mom has died from cancer, Eve receives a mysterious email from an anonymous person. She opens it and reads:
Dear Eve,

Your life as it is now, sucks and you could vanish and nobody would notice or care. This is a list of things to contemplate....

1. You Hate Yourself Because You Don't Do Anything. SO GET OFF YOUR ASS!

2. You are attractive when you're happy! And your obviously not happy.

3. Complaining is a F*cking waste of time. So stop doing it.

4. We're all going to have someone die on us - deal with it.

5. The only person in control of your life is you.

Love, A fellow friend