You don't get to decide what family you're born into. You don't get to decide who you meet. You don't get decide the careers of your parents. There's a lot of things you don't have a say in. However, there is one thing I have a say in. Who I love. Or do I even have that choice? For her, it wasn't a choice to fall in love with him, but for him, falling in love with her was not an option and not a choice.