Damian Wayne was 6 when he realised he wanted to be a boy not a girl . he was 8 1/2 when he got his first period . he was 9 when he was raped . he was 9 1/2 when he found out his baby wasn't alive . he was 10 when he gave birth to a still born baby girl . he was also 10 when he met his own father . 11 and he cried himself to sleep every night . 12 and he still longed for his little girl . 13 and they found out .