Well, just because someone have done you wrong doesn't mean down the line they will do the same to the next. Sometimes in life you have to go through different types of relationships in order to find that special someone, the only way you can tell if your making progress in your relationship is when the person is willing to be there for you and to go through challenge's with you and forgive you and move on, forgive is the most important thing in a relationship. Sometimes it take other's longer to get married. Maybe you might not be ready yet or don't want to get married yet!! Sometimes it takes 5-10 years or maybe longer then that to get married for other's . . . just because he or she don't have and ring on their finger, just put a ring on it or don't, just because your spouse didn't put a ring on it, doesn't mean you have to give up on that person or that person doesn't love you, even if you have and promise or engagement ring to give too your spouse's.. That's even fine till the both of you ready to get married. if you don't have patience, well then you never really did love that person anyway. That's why people miss out on love half of the time because they break up and not knowing that was they're soulmate they was with the whole time who they broke up with and sometimes you don't always have too have a promise or engagement ring to be together forever with out getting married or your spouse's don't want to get married or married right away doesn't mean they don't care about you sometimes, your spouse have to get themselves together and sometimes it takes both to say I wanna marry -1-All Rights Reserved