Having trouble with who you are is hard, but sharing it with others makes it easier. Never be ashamed because your problem isn't as big as someone else's, because, to you, it can be the most difficult thing you've experienced. So no matter the size of your problem, share it with someone you trust, someone who will listen because it will help to know that you have someone to turn to. That is the reason as to why I'm writing this. Because I have trouble finding out who I am. Update: I am going to use this as a place to vent about problems that I'm having overall.