Behind the armor

Amber is just like all the other girls or at least she trys to be. If you get close to her you would notice that

A) her "parents" abuse of her

B) no one ever moves in the houses next door to her and when they do they are out of there in a year or less

C) she is just pining to have a guy come save her

But of course part c is just fairytale talk because in a world like this even a women goes to war

So when a new neighbor comes and she accidently leads him on will she find herself
Building the walls even higher or breaking them down?