Flaws of a wife

Why does the society always proves to be unfair and unjust?

Was it my fault when I was married off to the man I barely know by my father?

Was it my fault that I silently took pills to not get pregnant early by my husband?

Was it my fault that I still haven't give birth?

Was it my fault that am not civilized enough?

Was it my fault that I didn't get to continue school?

All this weren't my fault but none of the people around us realizes this.They all see this as a flaw,and this flaws are regarded as flaws of a wife.