whatever happens, happens. that's all i'm saying for now. you can't be serious right now! of course i can be serious right now! after how many tinder horror stories, i finally get a chance with my dream guy and everyone is telling me i'm an idiot? you are an idiot! you know what kind of girls sean is into? you are meek and mild and five years younger than him, you are nothing like the women i've seen him with time and time again! what is that supposed to mean? you are you, you're breathtaking, stunning, and you're so sweet, but you're quiet and introverted, you're also freshly twenty, and he is twenty five. you're going to end up hurt and i don't know how you can't see that, but the next time your heart gets broken i am not going to be the one who picks up the pieces for you once again. not to mention, i've known the guy forever now, i have seen how he treats women; not disrespectfully, but poorly nevertheless. he is going to play with your feelings, that's all i'm saying. wow sam, you're really classy huh... that's how you talk to a lifelong friend. nice to know that you really don't give a shit about anyone but yourself. sorry i can't reciprocate the feelings you have for me, i love you as a friend, but that is it. if that isn't enough for you then you don't deserve my friendship at all, if my happiness doesn't mean anything to you, then you can see yourself out. that's not what i'm saying i- that is exactly what you are saying!