Battle wounds and pacifiers - Sander sides agere

Virgil is an age regressor, for lord knows how long. He also self harms (there will be a trigger warning so don't worry about that, I'll keep it minimal) how do people find out, and more importantly, how do they take it?
Main ship is Analogical, but it is also somewhat lamp.
Its not a human AU, but it has human type things in the imagination.

Trigger warnings;
Self harm
Agere (is this a trigger warning?)
Homophobia (in the imagination, nightmares, and to Thomas.)
Attempted suicide (maybe. MAYBE. In a later chapter.)
~ I will write where the trigger warnings are and there won't be a lot