How to spot a lesbian

Julia is the child of a really unordinary family; her mother's a pansexual, her father's a drag queen and they have lived their lives the queer way before the word was even invented! Yet being around so many unique people sometimes she feels like she is too ordinary; she feels like she needs to be strong as her parents to fight with the bullying and homophobia she has seen in her life even before she came out as a lesbian in highschool but no matter how much she tries she has always felt like it was not enough.
But one day it all suddenly ended! She went to college and the girl who was once seen as a wierdo in high-school with her wierdo family suddenly became this cool open-minded girl that everybody wanted to be with; it was ridiculous how in high-school being different was a curse but in college it was celebrated!
But that was not the end! One day she got a golden letter, inviting her to a sorority house and for some reasons different from what you might imagine, she couldn't say no...