some say it's a choice one makes falling in love, others presume the forces of the universe are always responsible, a few think it's an unwritten rule by fates for everyone to hopelessly fall in love at least once in every lifetime. That's up to them ,at some point I considered one of their thoughts to be true but after him who is not yo be mentioned, I came up with my own conclusion. Falling in love is one of the messed up ways the universe uses to remind us that up to a certain point we have no powers over what we want,mostly when it comes to love ,it's an almost maybe .