°•°Posses - Verb 1) To have something as belonging to you. 2) To control or dominate the thoughts or action of someone. °•°Possessive - Adjective 1) Want to keep what you posses for yourself and not share. 2) Demanding someone's total attention and love. °•°What cause Possessiveness? - Possessiveness often stem's from insecurities related to attention styles. People with attachment anxiety tend to have a negative view of themselves and a positive view of others. ∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆ Both of the last definition are the one I would use to define the situation I've hopelessly dragged myself in with no way out. I could find no light at the end of the dark hole of utter and complete obsession, desire and lust for the one woman that will have my heart hell bound. But I welcome this darkness with wide open arms to be one with me. And I wouldn't have it any other way. ∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆§∆∆ Disclaimer and Prologue inside. please have yourself a wonderful read