Each of its own happiness

Through out the period when i feLt that someone can love me and accept me for who i am( in an intimate and boyfriend kind of way)
i forgot to take care of myself.
I'd rather care for others than care for my family, my friends, my lifestyle, my goals, my God and my future. I was lost and still feeling lost when this things happen. I know it's wrong, and i believe that it's a process of learning how to unlove someone when you know if it's "doing you no good"

Making someone happy is a good thing but what if that person went away?? Will you still feel happy?? Will you still love yourself???

I know that happiness should be found from knowing who you really are first rather than being happy through someone.
Don't isolate yourself just because you love someone, it's a big world after all, lots of reasons to make you happy, it can be a person, a place , object, scrnario, etc....
Just live your life how God wants it to be.