Are you a sadist who derives pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation on others? Or perhaps are you a masochist who derives sexual gratification from being subjected to physical pain or humiliation? It sounds crazy right? Being a masochist or a sadist was not easy. But, what if your husband was both a masochist and a sadist? Will you be able to get away from his tight grip? Hi, I'm Venice Anderson and my husband is a sadomasochist.