The long hug

We fall in love three times.

We fall in love with three people in our lifetime. Each one for a specific reason.

First love

This love often happens at a young age. You eventually grow apart or call it quits over silly things. When you get older you may look back and think it wasn't love. But the truth is, it was. It sad love for what you knew love to be. There are different depths of love.

Second love

The hard one. You get hurt in this one. This love teaches us lessons and makes us stronger. This love includes great pain, lies, betrayal, abuse, drama and damage.

But this is the one where we grow. We realised what we love about love and what we don't love about love.

Now we know the difference between good and bad humans. Now we become closed, careful, cautious and considerate.

We know exactly what we want and don't want.

Third love

This one comes blindly. No warning. It creeps on you silently.

You don't go looking for this love. It comes to you.

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