what if ma in-love ka sa isang lalaking kinamumuhian mo? can you risk your life just to be with him or choose being selfish just to protect him? If you risk your life to someone but never think the coincidences just to be with him/her is my own definition of LOVE. But sometimes we need to think before act cause it might be dangerous if you just act and never think, so if you need to be selfish just to make them safe then be a SELFISH because in that case you're selfless and that's what you called TRUE-LOVE who can sacrifice their happiness to make that person SAFE. - Liax. Keep this in mind that don't be one sided and judgmental always listen to other's POV.