A collection of sources explaining WHY nonbinaries cannot be gay or lesbian, explaining why She/Her can't be gay (Gay as in MLM. gay means MLM, just as Lesbian means WLW) and He/Him can't be lesbian. les·bi·an /ˈlezbēən/ Learn to pronounce noun a gay woman Similar: adjective relating to gay women or to homosexuality in women. "a lesbian relationship" gay /ɡā/ adjective 1. (of a person) homosexual (used especially of a man). "the city's gay and lesbian people" Similar: 2. DATED lighthearted and carefree. "Nan had a gay disposition and a very pretty face"All Rights Reserved