Our apartment was dark and vibrant, the way we both liked it. Not one light switch on or a candle to dim a bit of the room, all dark with only the light looming through the windows. I know it seems like cats fighting but, we liked our sex this way. The bed was too boring for us, too soft. Why does it have to be the bedroom where we have sex when there are many rooms in the house. The living room is our favorite.