Help! I'm asexual and trapped in a dating sim!

Okay, my death was embarrassing. I'm not trying to deny that. But was it really embarrassing enough to warrant a goddess' attention?
Apparently so, and not only her attention, but her reward as well. Reincarnation, into any world I wanted and with all my memories intact. But when I asked to be reborn in my game world, I didn't mean the dating sim! I just wanted to live the quiet life, like the introverted hermit that I am, not get tangled up in academies and politics.
So my goal is simple. AVOID THE HAREM ROUTE AT ALL COSTS!