"There's something akin to freedom in having a lover who has no control over you, expcept that which he gains by kindness and attatchement."
-Harriet Ann Jacobs
"You didn't love her. You just didn't want to be alone. Or maybe she was just good for your ego. Or, maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life, but you didn't love her. Because you don't destroy the ones you love. -greys anatomy