Unspoken Love- "It Was Always You"

Was this infatuation?? Because he is near to be blinded by the attraction for her. Was he in love?? He dislikes her, he resents her, he disapprove of almost everything about her. Then why was she always in his head, creating havoc in his life?? He felt like a foolish teenage boy and so he did what he was supposed to do. He decided to marry.
Why does she feel intimated by him?? Intimacy means letting someone touch you. Then why does she call him at 3:00 am and talk about her dreams and fears?? Why all her attention is directed towards him, when ten other people are asking for it?? She knew he is always in the back of her mind, no matter how much she hates him . He had hurt her and torn her heart to pieces.This is why she needed love. And so she fell in love.