how to recognize a good friendship? it's a complicated question and finding an answer is pretty though but you can feel it, knowing their favorite songs or the color they love, those things are satisfying thing, make you feel appreciated but those things mean nothing if there isn't loyalty, respect and love. You can love a man a woman as your "temporary soulmate" but a true friend is the only person who still remains when the world is burning and the smoke is killing you softly, you can grab their hand and suddenly everything looks better.