we get attached to things that lure us. Everything beautiful is not pretty and everything you see is not true. There is at least a single secret everyone hides and some can ruin your entire life, while some can save someone else's life.
Everything has a reason they say, but why we have to lose something while anticipating the results and it might not be the best every time. You don't always lose to gain, sometime it's vice-versa or Lose and lose or in better case gain and gain.
Depends on what you choose.