This is How I disappear

My (entirely fictional) take on how MCR actually formed. When Frank Iero talked a walk across Highgate Cemetery, he comes across a lonely man with raven hair and tape over his knees, and falls in love immediately. After going back to his studio to meet the rest of the newly formed band My Chemical Romance, he discovers they are in need of a guitarist and says yes without a second thought. But what does falling in love with a broken, depressed alcoholic actually do to a person?