your and your sister bonnie moved back to mystic falls your mother was never around and your grams died when you where 10 which left bonnie to take care of you. bonnie was the person you could only talk to without feeling judged. you wanted to be like bonnie she was popular and had a bunch of friends. sometimes with those friends she would disappear with them most of the time elena or caroline would take care of you one time bonnie disappeared with damon and was gone for about a year but when you grew up you and bonnie stopped talking and you moved to chicago only to return back to mystic falls and you met him. he changed the way you thought of the world. you showed you many beautiful things but also brung chaos into your life . you grew to love him for who he is and willing to do anything for him .